Find a Man Who Speaks Sweetly. Kindness is the Best.

Meet a man who speaks sweetly. Kindness is the best.

"I love spending time with Youngju the most. It feels completely fulfilling." Isaac said this to me on the phone this morning.

Hearing this made my day. To be the best person for someone, to fill someone up... Kind words made my day incredibly happy.

Jungju, after hearing the above story, said, "Isaac speaks so sweetly!" That's right. Isaac's kindness is evident in his sweet words.

I once saw a lecture by speaker Kim Chang-ok, titled <Meet someone who speaks sweetly!>. Because I had never met someone who spoke sweetly, it was hard for me to relate. How can someone who hasn't tasted beef explain what it tastes like? You have to try it to know.

Now I understand. Being with someone who speaks sweetly is like happily lying in a fluffy, warm cloud. A feeling of a kind and warm safe haven. As with the beef example above, only those who have experienced it can understand this feeling. I've tasted the beef now, and I've experienced its flavor. There's no going back.

I used to date the tsundere type. While you can't say that tsundere types speak roughly, they don't speak kindly or sweetly either. There's a hint of rudeness. Tsunderes have their own charm, but in my experience, being with someone warm and kind is much happier. I see this in those around me, too.

Recently, I visited the US and met Isaac's friends, Justin and Philia. Justin was a kind and warm person, treating his pregnant wife, Philia, like a princess, caring for and cherishing her every step of the way. Watching them, Philia seemed to shine and appear even more beautiful. And I thought, a kind man makes a woman shine even brighter.

Now, if someone asks me, "What kind of man should I meet?", I think I'd advise them to meet a man who speaks sweetly and has good character. Because that's truly the best.

They say kind words bring forth flowers. Thanks to Isaac's kind words, I bloomed a flower today. I'm in a good mood even while writing this. I hope you, the reader, feel good too. If you have a lover, please use kind words to help them bloom another flower :-)